Breaking Tradition: Unconventional Wedding Ideas to Make Your Day Uniquely Yours
When it comes to weddings, the possibilities are endless. Couples today are embracing non-traditional wedding ideas to make their special day a reflection of their relationship. In fact, one of my favorite parts of coordinating weddings is creating memorable experiences for guests that reflect the couple’s unique personalities. There are countless ways to shake up wedding traditions, but I’ll share some favorites selected by our wedding planning squad.
Revamping the Processional
While the processional order has traditional roles, like the father of the bride giving away his daughter, you don’t have to follow a standard script. Consider unique alternatives, especially ones that break traditional gender norms. Have both parents walk you down the aisle, or have your siblings send you off. A crowd pleaser is always when grandparents take the role of flower girl.
Unconventional Ceremony Arrangement
The traditional seating arrangement for ceremonies consists of rows of chairs all facing forward. You can create a unique ceremony atmosphere by reshaping the space.
Arrange the chairs in a circle around you and your partner, creating an intimate setting where all your guests feel close to the action. Or set up different seating lounges with various types of seating (e.g., sofas, benches, and bean bags). It will make the ceremony feel more relaxed and intimate.
Playing With Colors
While white and pastel color palettes are classics for weddings, don't be afraid to go bold and express your personality through color.
Forgo the traditional white dress for a colored or patterned dress. Use striking color combinations like bright red and turquoise or black and gold to create a visually stunning atmosphere. If you can stick to one dominant color, using different shades and textures to create a harmonious and chic monochromatic wedding theme.
Be Your Own Welcome Committee
The couple is usually tucked away for some quiet moments before the ceremony when guests arrive. But who says you can’t join in the party from the start.
Greet your guests as they arrive - after all, they’re here for you two! This is a great way to take some moments with your people before the whirlwind begins. Savor these moments with your guests and simply rely on your day-of-coordinator to let you know when it’s time for the ceremony.
Audio or Video Guest Book
Move beyond traditional guest books to capture heartfelt messages. Set up a recording booth where guests can leave video or audio messages, sharing their well-wishes and memories, perfect for reliving the day. Use a camcorder for videos or a retro phone for audio to add an extra fun vibe!
For guests who couldn’t attend in person, create an online platform, allowing them to leave messages, photos, and videos, so everyone can be part of your special day.
Ditch the Send Off “Car”
Rather than leaving your wedding in a “Just Married” car, hop onto a Vespa, take a bike ride, or arrange for a carriage. Many Washington wedding venues are on the water, so take advantage of the landscape and get picked up by a boat to ride off into the sunset in style.
Photos by Julie Harmsen, Krysta & Nick, Jane Jung Photography, Aspen & Cedar
Whether it's how you greet your guests or how they send you off or anything in between, there are countless ways to make your wedding uniquely yours. So, embrace the unconventional and create a wedding day that truly reflects the essence of your love story. As always, work with your wedding planners and selected wedding services to dream up ways to make your vision a reality.
